Sex Pillows: The Ultimate Bedroom Support

Having the right pillow for sleep is a big deal. Choosing the right pillow is important because it supports proper neck and spine alignment, helping you sleep more comfortably and wake up without stiffness or pain.

But there’s another type of pillow that you might not even know you need yet: the sex pillow.

Using a sex pillow isn’t about something not working in your bedroom—it’s about making things work even better. How many times have you wished you had just 10 more degrees to hit your G-spot?

How many times have your knees hurt or your partner’s back started hurting in the middle of sex? How many times have you or your partner struggled to maintain a position because you didn’t have enough stability or support?

A sex pillow can be the answer.

In this video, we’re talking about something that hits differently compared with sex toys: sex furniture that can make a surprisingly big difference in your bedroom.

A sex pillow is designed to support and position your body—or your partner’s body—helping you explore different angles and positions while taking some pressure off your body.

Tired of doing missionary every time?

Want to try some new positions or practice a little bedroom acrobatics? A sex pillow can give you angles you couldn’t dream of!

So, let’s get comfortable and see what these bedroom pillows can really do!

WHAT IS A SEX PILLOW?

Humans have used sexual body pillows for centuries. There have been ancient Egyptian phallus pillows, medieval bolsters, and the historical Japanese “makura” pillow, used during the Edo period (1603–1868).

Wooden or bamboo pillows were designed to support the neck and head, including during sexual activity. Wealthier people were often able to afford intricately carved and decorated versions.

Different cultures have developed their own sexual accessories throughout history, like the Japanese makura pillow. So, with that being said, sex pillows have been around for centuries—and there’s a reason why.

Even for couples who might be hesitant to incorporate sex toys into their sex life, a sex pillow can be a nice introductory accessory.

Sex pillows usually come in different shapes and sizes, including wedges, ramps, cubes, rectangles, bars, and chaise-style pillows. They’re typically made from firm foam or inflatable materials and may have removable, washable covers.

Different shapes and sizes let you support new positions and improve awkward angles. Compared with regular pillows, sex pillows are usually made with high-density foam that keeps its shape and provides more direct support. Many also feature removable, washable covers.

WHY USE A SEX PILLOW?

Here are some reasons why you might consider using a sex pillow:

1. Improved Comfort

The top reason people use a sex pillow is to improve their comfort during sex.

Sex pillows can provide extra support and relieve pressure, making sex more comfortable and enjoyable. They can help you adjust your position, angle, and depth of penetration, allowing you to find your ideal position.

They can also help optimize body angles, alleviate physical strain, and potentially increase physical pleasure.

2. Increased Range of Motion

Using a sex pillow can help open up new positions and angles that may not have been possible without the added support and elevation.

You don’t want to do the same thing in bed over and over again, so why not try something new? There are so many positions and angles that you may never have thought to try on a regular bed.

3. Enhanced Stimulation

By lifting and positioning the body in certain ways, sex pillows can provide increased stimulation and easier access to your intimate areas.

Sex pillows can help you find a position that allows for more effective penetration, easier oral sex, or more stimulation of the clitoris. They may also make it easier to use sex toys, either alone or with a partner.

The more comfortable you are during sex, the longer the experience may last.

4. Reduced Fatigue

Sex pillows can help reduce fatigue and strain on the body, making it easier to maintain positions for longer periods of time.

People with arthritis, back pain, or other physical limitations may find sex difficult or uncomfortable. Sex pillows can help reduce pressure on joints, support the hips and back, and allow for a greater range of motion.

5. Improved Intimacy

Using a sex pillow can help couples feel more connected and intimate as they explore new positions and sensations together.

6. Kink Play

When you want to try fixation or bondage but realize your bed doesn’t have anything to attach to, a sex pillow may help.

With a wide variety of loops and attachments, some sex pillows can provide additional options for positioning and restraint.

7. Pregnancy Sex

When you’re pregnant, pretty much everything can feel uncomfortable, and lying flat on your back for long periods of time may not be ideal.

If you want to maintain a satisfying sex life during pregnancy, a sex pillow can help you find a more comfortable position and provide additional support.

8. Less Pain

During intercourse, some people experience pain from deep penetration, especially when the pelvic floor muscles become tight or tense.

A sex pillow can help you adjust the angle and depth of penetration and find a more comfortable position, which may help reduce discomfort.

Understanding the Psychological Benefits of Using a Sexual Body Pillow

Sex pillows can provide more than just physical comfort—they can also offer psychological benefits.

Using a supportive accessory during sex can help people feel more comfortable and confident. Plus, this is something you can explore together to create a better or different experience, which can be a great way to bring something new into your relationship.

A sex pillow can also provide a sense of security and stability, allowing you to relax and enjoy yourself more fully.

Just imagine: you don’t have to constantly think about balance, knee pain, or what to hold onto if you feel like you’re losing your position.

For some people, sex pillows can also make sexual activity more accessible by providing additional support and helping accommodate different physical needs.

WHAT ARE THE BEST SEX PILLOW POSITIONS?

MISSIONARY

Pillows underneath the hips during missionary can lift the pelvis into a more convenient angle for penetration, potentially creating an ideal angle for G-spot stimulation.

When you’re exploring anal sex positions, the additional lift can also change the angle of penetration. You can also use a pillow to support your spine when trying positions with your legs elevated.

ON TOP

Being on top can be hard on the knees.

When it’s your turn on top, and your knees hurt at the thought of it—not in a good way!—maybe it’s time for some pillows.

A sex pillow can provide additional support for your knees and hips, helping you stay comfortable and enjoy the position for longer without putting as much strain on your body.

FROM BEHIND

Doggy-style can be challenging when there’s a significant height difference between partners.

Sex pillows can help bring your bodies to a more comfortable level. Place one under your hips for additional support and adjust the position until you find an angle that works for both of you.

ORAL

Whether you’re lying on your back or your stomach, lifting your hips can make oral sex more comfortable.

Either way, you can create easier access for your partner. You can also use a ramp to prop up your shoulders and head, giving you a comfortable position while your partner goes down.