Blow Job 101: Simple Tips to Improve Your Oral Sex

You would be hard-pressed to find a man who doesn’t enjoy the pleasure and eroticism of a good blow job. A lot of women shy away from giving head or simply don’t know how to do it correctly. I won’t be able to illustrate everything about giving an amazing blow job in a blog post, but if you want to drive your man crazy with an incredible experience, check out the training and consultations I offer.

Whether you call it "giving head," "blow job," or "going down," every penis needs it. Giving a good blow job is an art, and it takes some practice and knowledge to master it. If you want to learn how to do it like a pro, you should definitely attend my training, but in the meantime, here are some tips to take your technique to the next level:

- No Dry Mouth:Use lube and stay hydrated. Hydrate your mouth with water before the action and stock up on flavored, water-based lube. A penis doesn’t self-lubricate like a vagina, and your mouth isn't always full of saliva. Especially if you've been drinking alcohol or not hydrating throughout the day, you won't be able to take it all the way in. Flavored lubes can turn oral sex into a delicious treat and prevent discomfort like sore lips and a dry mouth. Many men have asked me, “Why don’t all women have oral lube for blow jobs like you do?” because it does make a huge difference.

- Find Your Rhythm:  Whatever techniques you use on his penis, you have to maintain a consistent rhythm. If you don’t have a natural sense of rhythm, maybe it’s time to turn on your sexy playlist and move your head in sync with the music. I hate when people are silent during sex, so music can be handy in those cases too. But if you’re the one giving, please make some noises too. I know it’s nearly impossible to talk with a dick in your mouth, even if you’re a big talker like me. However, when you’re trying to make him cum and you both are silent like it’s a cemetery, it doesn’t help at all.

- No Spitting Unless His Cum Is Disgusting:“Spitters are quitters.” The moment you swallow his cum is sometimes sexier than the blow job itself for many penis owners. Spitting in front of him can be a bummer. While tastes vary based on diet, if the taste is off-putting, make him a smoothie with pineapple as often as you can. If you are the one cooking for him, make sure to avoid spicy and fast foods that might alter the flavor.

- Don’t Stare at His Penis All the Time: When you’re down there doing your thing without any eye contact, it can feel detached. Occasional eye contact adds passion and excitement; the sexiest blow job is the one performed with enthusiasm. You can demonstrate this enthusiasm using advanced techniques or a simple sexy look in your eyes. Lets be honest , with all blow job toys on the market, he could have just used that if he didn’t need a human connection, here is where your eye contact comes in.

- No Teeth: Please understand it’s a penis, the most sensitive area of the male body, not a slice of pizza that you can bite. Guys with girth may pull your head away from their penises because your teeth scare them. Imagine someone biting your clit; you probably wouldn’t be begging for more. Here are a few things you can do: open your mouth wider like you’re at the dentist. Train your jaws to open wider. Cover your teeth with your lips, create an "O" shape with your mouth, and slide up and down along the shaft.

- Don’t Try to Deep-Throat All the Time: Especially if you are not good at it.  This technique can be learned with practice, but even when you do learn it, it doesn’t mean you have to take it all the way in all the time. Some blow jobs are gentle and slow, while others are fast and intense. Deep-throating is not a requirement, at least as long as you have other tricks in your arsenal. If you’re not ready to go all the way in, go slowly and use your hand at the base to avoid the gag reflex.

-  Don’t Forget That Your Hands Are Here to Help: When your mouth needs a break, you’re not a vacuum cleaner to suck all the time. Even if you want to, if you do it for too long, your jaws will hurt. Use your hand around his girth so that it feels like an extension of your mouth. Take a little break and recharge your batteries while stroking him and sucking on the tip.

- Don’t Focus Solely on the Penis:Balls need some attention too. If you can incorporate ball stimulation super gently, that can be great. If you get caught up in passion and don’t question every move, it’s easy to bruise them. Why do so many TV shows and movies have characters hit the balls to knock someone out? A lot of men get off not necessarily from you sucking the head or shaft but from you licking the balls while they jerk off. This means you can’t be scared to bruise them and forget they exist; you need to find a gentle approach. Don’t make the balls the main course, but definitely consider them an appetizer or dessert.


- Don’t Make It All About Him: If you decide for yourself that you’re here to enjoy the process, then make it enjoyable for yourself too. It’s hard not to notice when someone rushes you to cum because they’re tired of pleasuring you or simply not excited enough. Don’t make it a one-way street; a variety of wearable sex toys can make even grocery shopping or walking the dog a sexy adventure. It’s never a bad idea to pop something in while you’re sucking on him. Even if you are a giver who doesn’t need anything in return, additional stimulation during sex has never hurt anybody, and a few extra orgasms while you’re working his cock will be a great addition to your oral adventures.

-Mirror Play: This doesn’t work only for narcissists but for anyone who likes to watch.

- Be Playful: You don’t have to take it deep in your throat if you can make him explode with your words and gentle touches. Tell him you’re hungry for some protein breakfast.
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